What would you do?

One of my facebook friends would like your advice. She sent in the following question:
Spirit has come to me and said I could pursue my soulmate...karmic,maturing.... PERHAPS win him over, help him heal his wounds, and know great love or I could go on the path that is being offered me, a good life with rewards, but no deep love. A life where I can focus on growing my healing abilities and be a great healer.
What would you do?