I see you have been hurt. I see you are suffering & wanting to hide. You loved someone with your whole self & the relationship didn't pan out the way you thought it would... The love train didn't let you off at the right stop and now you are hanging there, wondering WTF?
I get it. I understand. I've been there too, but you can't let it break you. Your heart may be broken, but your spirit is not. You may feel like Humpty Dumpty when he fell off the wall, but your soul knows exactly how to put all those pieces back in place. You'll be ok. Trust that the Divine consciousness within you knows how to do it's job. You will heal. It's only natural.
So, you may be looking back at the whole thing, wondering why did I do it? How did I not see the signs of heartbreak headed my way? Let that go right now. Love is the best freakin' blindfold there is. If you were in love, I mean REALLY in love, there is no way you could have seen where this was going. Love by it's very nature prevents you from seeing clearly. When you are in love, all you can see is Holy Light. Nothing else matters. And that is exactly as it should be. If you were not blinded by love & immersed in light, if you were thinking & rational the whole time, then you were not doing it right. Love is in the heart, not the head, my friend. Love has never been & will never be rational. That is not her job.
But you did yours. With all the courage you had in you, you got on the rollercoaster of romance & you rode it with your heart wide open. You WENT THERE and WOW! was it amazing! That is, until, you realized that your beloved was not going there with you. Then, it started to suck. And, it probably started to sting, making you regret taking the ride in the first place.
Just because someone else could not go there with you does not mean that you wasted your time. YOU went there. You forged the paths in your own heart that allow you to fully express & receive love in a gloriously beautiful way. You did your job. Just because the other person didn't, couldn't or wouldn't, doesn't mean that you did wrong. You did right. VERY right. Be proud of that. Don't sink into the puddles of tears you are crying. Hold your head up high. Be proud that you had the courage to go where many people only dream of going. They sing songs about going there. They watch movies so they can feel like they are there. But you.... you actually WENT there. You are so brave. And so beautiful. Stand strong in your own power. Know the infinite beauty within your own heart.
And don't you dare stop. Don't EVER let someone else's fears or issues stop you. Your love is an infinite river, constantly flowing. Just because someone else stopped loving, doesn't mean you should. In fact, it means the opposite. Your love has run it's course & it will not be contained any longer. It should not be contained any longer. Maybe you can't go there with this person, but you know how to get there. You made it there before & you will make it there again. Relax in the knowledge that you have the map that guides you there and you can use it again whenever you are ready. You have all you need to get to the place you want to be, to have the partnership you are seeking. Have faith in yourself & listen to that beautiful heart of yours. It will show you the way.
A fellow Broken Heart
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